Read Luke 15:11-32
Many of us are familiar with the parable of the Prodigal Son. It is the story of a man's youngest son who takes his inheritance, runs away and squanders his money. In so doing, he learns a valuable lesson and returns to his father. His father can reject him but he does not. Because of his love for his son he accepts him and throws a feast in celebration of his return even though his son's actions hurt him. The father forgives him.
However, in verse 28 we are introduced to the father's oldest son. He is confused and angry at his father's actions, "Look! All these years I've been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!" (29-30.)
Aren't we often guilty of feeling like the older brother? Don't we sometimes say, "I've been here working steadily all this time and my actions are ignored, but my brother makes terrible choices and his actions are rewarded." It can be easy to feel this way, especially when you work diligently but in feeling this way we are missing the bigger picture.
It is wrong to say, "my actions are ignored," because they are not ignored at all. In verse 31 the father tells the oldest son, "you are always with me, and everything I have is yours." If we feel bad about someone else's party then we are purposely ignoring our own reward, which is the continual time we have spent with God.
When we feel this way, we must ask ourselves, "Which do I want more: to spend everyday growing closer to God or party hats and confetti?" When we put our feelings into perspective it is much easier to celebrate along with the younger son. After all, who knows better what he will gain in his future with God than those of us who have spent many years with God already?
The parable doesn't tell us what the older brother does after his father speaks to him. I think that is intentional. It's a hint that the choice is ours to make.
Write your own ending to the parable this week. Place yourself in the older brother's shoes and commit your spirit to celebrate.